Where my ladies up in here that like to talk back!?

Tell me something, where your boss at? Where my ladies up in here that like to talk back? ~ Beyonce

So today at work some friends and I started to read/compare our zodiac signs to see if we would have a long lasting "working" relationship. Ya know.....were we all compatible :)

Anywho when I get compared against my buddy the tharpedo, another co-worker was shocked. And said " You guys didn't get along at first though..huh?" Tharpedo and I looked at each other, and then basically said "Ummmm yea we have always gotten along." So then the co-worker (we will call her "Cami")said : "Oh..I didn't think you guys would get along at first....cuz ya know...Rebekah is kinda...." and then she starts making this hand jesture that looks like a hand puppet..

So I was like "Rebekah is what??? She can talk?? WTF does that mean?" and Cami just says "Ya know she is kinda mouthy." Anywho Tharpedo just starts laughing and pretty much says that he has always liked the fact that I am so mouthy, and that is part of the reason y we get along." I started to LOL at first but then I thought...Hey WTF!!!! IM NOT MOUTHY!! Why is it that anytime a chick/women/girl/female (whatever has something valid to say and gets her point across that all the sudden that chick is mouthy? Or bitchy, or sassy ( I fuckin hate that word btw!!) And even if I was a lil mouthy I dont think I would allow it to get in the way of getting along with my co-workers. I will say what needs to be said but I think I know when to shut the fuck up!!! At least I hope I do...Oh well I don't even care that much if I am categorized as mouthy...I will be that one that always says what needs to be said, I just wish it didn't always come across so negatively.